Our Annual Fundraiser 2017 is Live!!

picture courtesy of GGRF.

The Good for Girls Annual online fundraiser is live, and we hope you’ll consider a contribution!! No amount is too little, every penny counts when it comes to helping give disadvantaged girls a leg up.

Help us raise $5000 to support our program partnerships for 2018. Our grant support helps pilot or expand initiatives by small, on-the-ground organizations who work directly with girls and young women at risk.

Click here to donate!
(or copy/paste this link into your browser: https://www.crowdrise.com/good-for-girls-annual-fundraiser-2016)

What are you helping us to do?
Since 2014, we have partnered with the Girls Gotta Run Foundation in Ethiopia, where child marriage is a serious problem and girls are often taken out of school once they reach puberty. We have helped them pilot and expand initiatives that reach girls through athletics and a life skills program. Through scholarships, girls train as runners, and learn about issues that affect their lives such as nutrition, healthy relationships, and financial literacy. The running team represents a ‘safe space’ and peer-support group, and the scholarships help remove any financial burdens on the girls’ families so they can stay enrolled in school. We also support a Savings Group for the mothers of these girls (many of whom are single mothers) to provide a peer-learning environment where they can better their livelihood skills to support their families.

In 2017, the very first co-hort of 15 girls graduated from the 3-year program – all will be continuing their education, and all are no longer at risk of child marriage (read more here). From just 15 girls 3 years ago, today we help GGRF provide scholarships to 90 girls, and 35 of their mums.

In July this year, we began partnering with an organization in Singapore called Daughters of Tomorrow, which helps underprivileged women seek out livelihood opportunities and build financially independent and resilient families (read more here).

In the women’s back-to-work journeys, the burden of care often falls on their older children. Girls, typically, end up having to help look after younger siblings, while their mums look for work to make ends meet. These teenage girls therefore have to miss out on opportunities after school such as enrichment courses, school excursions, sports and other extra-curricular development. Many give up on their dreams to pursue sports or the arts from a young age, because of the practical needs at home. Some girls also end up having to quit school altogether to work to help the family out financially.

Good for Girls and DOT are piloting a “Care Fund” that women can dip into to pay for babysitting and other care-related needs to free up their older daughters’ time. The fund is also meant to be a resource to provide small amounts to cover basic costs of after-school activities (such as fees, transport, equipment rental, etc), which girls usually cannot afford.

Picture courtesy of DOT.

First Cohort of Athletic Scholars Graduates!

Three years ago, we embarked on a partnership with the Girls Gotta Run Foundation (GGRF) to help them pilot a girls’ Athletic Scholarship program in Sodo, Ethiopia. 15 adolescent girls from the Abba Pascal Girls School were recruited to join a running team, where they would train together three times a week after school, and then participate in a life skills program on Saturdays.

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Photo courtesy of Girls Gotta Run Foundation

This year, all 15 girls graduated from the program. All are continuing with their education, and all are no longer at risk of early marriage. Three of the girls have actually opted to continue into the 11th and 12th grade which is the equivalent of pre-college studies in Ethiopia – only a very small percentage of women complete this level of education in the country.

Importantly, the girls’ much improved self confidence, their academic successes and their maturity as individuals have shown their families and communities the immense benefits available to girls and their families, if they stay in school.

Child Marriage

Each of the girls, much like many of their peers, was at risk of child (or early) marriage – a problem that is endemic throughout Ethiopia. Girls as young as 10, are taken out of school and married off, usually to much older men. Once this happens, their education is completely stalled, they are isolated from friends and family, and expected to start having children (even while still being children themselves, and often at great risk to their health). What this amounts to is a cruel stunting of any and all opportunities to develop their intellect and abilities, and realize their potential as they grow into adults. Child marriage is a very complex, socio-economic and cultural challenge that affects many countries. In Ethiopia, although the government has outlawed marriage before the age of 18, the practice continues largely due to traditional norms, poverty and fear of violence. [Read more about child marriage here and here.]

The Athletic Scholarship Program

Running, Ethiopia’s national sport and culturally acceptable for both men and women to practice, is being used as an ‘entry-point’ to work with disadvantaged girls. It offers a culturally relevant, low cost, high impact means of creating safe spaces for girls to develop self confidence, identify role models (such as Ethiopia’s female running champions), form a peer support network, and identify and reach personal goals. The running team the girls join is complemented by a life skills curriculum which includes topics such as nutrition, family planning, financial literacy, health and healthy relationships, and leadership.

21273111_10155619565217866_2023923382193651677_o The GGRF team meets extensively with the families of each girl – and sometimes community leaders as well – to obtain consent, discuss the goals of the program and answer any concerns. A US$600 scholarship is then provided to each girl for a year. This covers a daily healthy meal and snacks after practice, uniforms, school fees and all school supplies, athletic gear, soap, laundry detergent and feminine hygiene products, healthcare for each girl and her mother, and funds to cover mandatory annual academic tests. The scholarships also cover the salaries of an athletics coach and life skills mentor who facilitates the curriculum.

In their second year, the girls act as peer educators to the new cohort of younger girls joining the program. Getting them to teach the life skills curriculum (alongside an adult mentor) offers a way for them to gain leadership experience, and reinforce the important concepts in the curriculum. In turn, the incoming students benefit from the oversight of a female mentor as well as a group of female peers.

In their final year, the girls focus on building their financial literacy and entrepreneurial skills, and further developing their leadership qualities.

Today, the entire Athletic Scholarship Program has expanded to 55 girls in Sodo (in one school) and 35 girls (in two schools) in another region Bekoji, where the program has also involved the girls’ mothers by setting up Savings Groups. In these groups, the women, most of whom run micro-businesses, have obtained business skills training, and started savings and micro-credit schemes to help each other expand their businesses or start new ones.

 

The Second Good for Girls Charity Ride at SoulCycle

unnamedRemember how much fun we had last year? Well we’re doing it again, so come ride with us for a good cause!

We’re partnering with SoulCycle – the maestros of re-invented indoor cycling – to do a charity ride: an exhilarating, heart-pumping 45-minute indoor cycling workout. It’s like being at a club, but you’re cycling instead of dancing!

All proceeds will benefit partnerships supported by Project Good for Girls.

So grab a few friends and come sweat it out with us!

(and P.S if you can’t make it but would like to donate a bike, that would of course be awesome.)

When: Wed, Sept 27th 2017 at 7.00pm. (Refreshments will be served after the ride.)

Where: SoulCycle West Village, 126 Leroy Street, NYC.

To Reserve a Bike: A minimum $65 donation via Crowdrise is required to reserve a bike. A reservation email with your name and bike number will serve as your ticket and must be presented on the day of the ride. Tickets include clip-in shoe rental, water, and post-ride reception. Any questions, please email projectgoodforgirls@gmail.com.

Important to Note: Please arrive between 6.15-6.45pm, the ride will start promptly at 7.00pm. Riders must be at least 4’11” and at least 12 years old to ride. For any rider under 18, a parent or guardian will need to sign a waiver in person.

Our New Partner – Daughters of Tomorrow!

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A DOT training session (pic courtesy of DOT).

Good for Girls is thrilled to announce our new partnership with Daughters of Tomorrow in Singapore.

DOT is a non-profit organization that helps underprivileged women seek out livelihood opportunities and build financially independent and resilient families.

What’s happening in Singapore?

As the income gap in Singapore continues to widen, more and more families are falling behind. It is often a silent ‘epidemic’ — largely unseen amidst the glitz and glamour of the country’s affluent urban landscape. There are glimpses of it though: when you eat at a food court/hawker center and all the people clearing tables are elderly; when a new story surfaces in the newspaper about families crammed 10 to a single HDB flat, or kids having to study for exams by candlelight because their electricity has been shut off. When you take a stroll along East Coast Park beach early in the morning and see piles of flattened cardboard boxes, evidence of makeshift tents used by the homeless.

But there are civil society groups that are helping to address this and DOT is one of them. They noticed that a rapidly growing number of the affected tend to be women – notably elderly and single mothers – and so chose to focus on helping these women build financial resilience, not just to survive but to thrive. The challenges facing single mothers are significant. Forced to raise their families on their own because of death, divorce or abandonment by their partners, there are oftentimes severe limitations on their access to gainful employment. For instance, because there is no one to look after their young children at home they cannot pursue training or attend interviews, or take on jobs that don’t offer flexibility. They may have left the workforce to care for their families and now see their skills increasingly less-valued by potential employers. Permanent housing can also be a huge obstacle, meaning that many have to rent single rooms in flats, or burden family members and friends to keep a roof over their heads.

DOT currently works with women aged between 20 and 60 to learn new or improve existing skills to reach regular and sustained employment. The organization ‘deep-dives’ into the practical day-to-day constraints faced by each woman, coaching and supporting them individually, and building their confidence and self-esteem. DOT complements existing training and workforce-related agencies by connecting volunteers and community resources – any woman in a low-income situation who registers with a Family Service Center or Social Services Office can participate in DOT’s programmes.

So what’s the new partnership all about?

In the women’s back-to-work journeys, the burden of care often falls on their older children. Girls, typically, end up having to help look after younger siblings, while their mums look for work to make ends meet. These teenage girls therefore have to miss out on opportunities after school such as enrichment courses, school excursions, sports and other extra-curricular development. Many give up on their dreams to pursue sports or the arts from a young age, because of the practical needs at home. Some girls also end up having to quit school altogether to work to help the family out financially.

So Good for Girls and DOT are piloting a “Care Fund” that women can dip into to pay for babysitting and other care-related needs to free up their older daughters’ time. The fund is also meant to be a resource to provide small amounts to cover basic costs of after-school activities (such as fees, transport, equipment rental, etc), which girls usually cannot afford. Since this is a pilot project, as needs evolve so too will the Fund, in order to best respond to the women it seeks to help.

The Care Fund is being made possible by the generosity of Good for Girls donors. As a small, all-volunteer organization with low overheads, we are able to grant almost every penny raised to support our partners.

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Some of DOT’s clients and their families (pic courtesy of DOT).

 

Our 2016 Annual Fundraiser is Online Now!

Help us empower girls! Support the Good for Girls 2016 annual fundraiser!

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Photo credit: Girls Gotta Run Foundation

Good for Girls is a volunteer-run non-profit organization that supports disadvantaged girls around the world to get the education and skills they need to become empowered adults. We partner with needs-focused, partner-led organizations through small grants, scholarships and program assistance to help facilitate or move projects forward.

There are too many girls who are being deprived of an education or the opportunity to build life skills, just because they are girls. Globally, an estimated 62 million girls are not in school. There are many reasons for this. It may be unsafe for girls to travel to and from school. Their families may not be able, or willing, to pay school-related costs. They may be forced to drop out to help at home or be married off at an early age. These situations trap girls in endless cycles of poverty as they grow into women, preventing them from developing their human potential, and depriving the world of what talents and abilities they have to offer.

This has got to change, and we need your help to be a part of that change!

Your donation will go towards scholarship and grant support for our partner organizations, who we work closely with to directly reach girls at risk. Project Good for Girls is recognised as a 501(c)(3) charitable organization. All donations (made in the United States) are tax-exempt to the fullest extent allowed by law.

Where your donations will go:

Since 2014 Good for Girls has partnered with the Girls Gotta Run Foundation in Ethiopia, where child marriage is a serious problem and girls are often taken out of school once they reach puberty. We have helped them pilot and expand initiatives that reach girls through athletics and a life skills program. Through scholarships, girls train as runners, and learn about issues that affect their lives such as nutrition, healthy relationships, and financial literacy. The running team represents a ‘safe space’ and peer-support group, and the scholarships help remove any financial burdens on the girls’ families so they can stay enrolled in school.

We also support a Savings Group for the mothers of these girls (many of whom are single mothers) to provide a peer-learning environment where they can learn or better their livelihood skills to support their families.

In addition, in 2017, Good for Girls will begin partnering with organizations in Singapore who work with women and girls. Although Singapore is touted as one of the richest countries in the world, what is less well known is that the income gap between high-income and lower-income families is growing exponentially, not least because of the current economic downturn. A traditionally thin government assistance system is woefully inadequate to meet the needs of families facing hardship. Estimates of between 20-35% of households are living in relative poverty – with the elderly and single mothers most vulnerable.*

The impact on children is alarming, with persistent gender stereotypes coupled with greater self-esteem issues giving rise to a disproportionate impact on adolescent girls in particular. For example, girls are expected to help with sibling childcare so their parents can go to work, depriving them of participating in extra-curricular school activities. Girls are also at greater risk of exploitation and harm when their families are forced to share rental flats, when family members are targeted by loan sharks, or when they are forced to start working at a young age to help put food on the table.

[*info provided by AWARE and Daughters of Tomorrow)

Today is International Day of the Girl

Happy Day of the Girl everyone.

I hope you hug the girls in your life extra hard today. Spare a thought too for the millions around the world who don’t get to go to school, who are married off too young, who are forced into sexual slavery, and who are told their whole lives that they are useless, and worth nothing compared to boys.

While we are not a political organization in any way, and we will never be, I think we would be remiss not to connect the meaning of this day with the current presidential race in the United States. The misogyny of Donald Trump, his ‘sexual predator’ behavior, his reducing of women to ‘pigs’ and numbers on a ratings scale – all of this is staring our daughters in the face. That he still has so much support despite this has propelled to the surface the ugly truth that the sinister, rotten culture of disrespect for women and girls, and complete disregard for their rights, is alive and well even in 2016.

At the same time, we have another candidate who is not just capable, but who has shown through decades of public service that she truly cares about the future of this country, and the ability of future generations, both boys and girls, to thrive. She is measured, articulate, thoughtful, extremely intelligent, and she listens when others speak. None of these attributes have got to do with her gender. They are qualities we would admire in a man or woman.

But her gender does matter too, whether we want to admit it or not. To women who have struggled, and continue to struggle for gender equality in our everyday lives. And especially to our young daughters, and nieces, and granddaughters (and I would argue, to many young women in countries across the globe). If Hillary Rodham Clinton becomes the first female president of one of the most powerful nations on earth, she would have broken the ultimate glass ceiling. What this would represent to our young girls would be invaluable. Generations to come will not shy away from thinking, doing, dreaming, just because they’re told “that’s for boys not girls” or “you’re paid less because you’re a woman”, or “girls do art and boys do science” or “girls are pretty and boys are clever”. They will instinctively challenge attempts to judge them by their gender and not their merits. They will better be able to stand up to systemic gender discrimination for themselves and others.

This is the reality I want for my own daughters and for girls everywhere. Hillary Clinton is Good for Girls, and we’re #WithHer.

Support us through Amazon Smile

If you’re buying stuff regularly on Amazon (and who isn’t?) please consider making the purchase through Amazon’s charitable program – Amazon Smile. They’ll donate 0.5% of the purchase price of eligible products to Good for Girls, if you indicate this as the charity of your choice. No extra cost to participate!

Click on the link below to get started:

https://smile.amazon.com/ch/47-4416313

THANK YOU!!

 

SoulCycle Success!

We’ve finally managed to tally up all the donations that came in, and we’re happy to report that we exceeded our fundraising goal!

Thank you so much to everyone who gave their support, who donated bikes, and who came to ride with us in May. Our thanks also to those who doubled (or tripled) their donations by getting a company match. And of course what would have been the point of sweating if we didn’t have beer from the Great South Bay Brewery to drink after? Thank you Rick Sobotka!
We had so much fun at the event that we’re definitely going to do a repeat. And we hope you had as great a time as we did and will join us again in the future!
And now…some pics!